Building a house on your parents' or family land
How to build on a site from your parents or family: the tax on the gift, getting the site into your name, what a lender asks for and the planning conditions.
How to get a one-off house design that fits your budget and the council's rural design guide: writing a brief, avoiding design refusals, stock plans or bespoke.
Months before anyone needs a builder, a one-off house is a design problem: you have, or are buying, a site, and you need a house that fits your budget and that the council will grant. The design is also the largest lever on cost. Get it right early and every later guide (planning, finance, build, insurance) gets easier.
To choose who designs it, see architect or engineer for a self-build. For the application, see planning permission for a one-off house.
A design brief is a short document you give a designer so they can draw something useful on the first attempt. One page is enough. It saves design fees because the designer is not guessing, and it stops you buying a plan for a house that your site or budget cannot take.
Cover these:
Keep the first draft short. List what must be there, what you would like if the budget allows, and what you do not want. Be ready to cut: a brief that asks for everything will cost more than you have.
Many county councils publish guidance on siting and designing a house in the countryside. It is usually a PDF with photographs and sketches, and it is often attached to or referred to by the county development plan. Each council’s planning pages may carry a newer edition than the links below, so confirm the current version before you rely on it.
| County | Guide |
|---|---|
| Cork | Cork Rural Design Guide |
| Clare | Clare Rural House Design Guide |
| Kildare | Rural House Design Guide, Appendix 4 of the 2023 to 2029 plan |
| Meath | Rural Design Guide |
| Kilkenny | County Kilkenny Rural Design Guide |
| Roscommon | Rural design guidelines |
| Laois | Rural design guidelines |
| Galway | County Development Plan 2022 to 2028, chapter 4 (rural design policy; the older stand-alone Galway guide link no longer works) |
If your county is not here, search the council’s planning pages for “rural design guide” and check the county development plan’s rural housing chapter. Ask the planning office whether there is one. Reading the guide for your county is more useful than reading all eight, because they differ in detail, but they agree on the main ideas:
None of this is a rule you can be refused for breaking in itself. The guides are advice, and the planning decision rests on the county development plan and the planner’s view of the site. But if your design departs from the guide, be ready to explain why in your planning drawings or a short design statement.
Councils refuse one-off houses for policy reasons (the applicant does not meet the local-need condition) and for design reasons. Policy refusals cannot be fixed by redrawing the house. Design refusals can. The common design reasons, and what usually answers them:
| Reason | What the planner means | What to change |
|---|---|---|
| Siting | The house sits on a ridge, in the middle of an open field, or too close to the road. | Move it back, down, or against existing trees and hedges. Use the part of the site with a natural backdrop. |
| Scale | The house is too big for the site or the landscape. | Reduce the footprint. Break it into linked, narrower parts. Consider a storey and a half. |
| Height | A tall ridge or high floor level stands out. | Lower the ridge, reduce the floor-to-floor height, or sink the house into the slope. |
| Glazing | Large areas of glass, especially facing the road or a view, read as an inappropriate modern intrusion. | Reduce and reposition the glazing, put the large openings on the private side, and set out the windows in a pattern with the wall. |
| Finishes | Colours, cladding or materials that contrast with the area. | Choose plain, local-looking finishes and say what they are on the drawings. |
Before lodging, ask the planning office for a pre-planning meeting and bring the drawings. See planning permission for a one-off house for how that works. If you have already been refused, read one-off house planning refused for how to read the decision notice and choose between an appeal and a fresh application.
Stock or catalogue plan
Bespoke design
This guide gives no price for stock plans because there is no reliable published figure; ask each supplier. A stock plan is not a shortcut around a designer. It saves time on the first drawings, but someone still has to adapt it to the site, check it against the Building Regulations in force, and prepare the planning drawings.
If you are on the statutory certification route, you need a design certifier and an assigned certifier, and each has to be an eligible registered professional. A supplier of plans may not be one. Before you buy, ask in writing who will certify the design, what it will cost, and whether they have seen the plan. See assigned certifier explained and commencement notice and BCAR.
Most of the cost of a house is decided on the drawing board. What drives it, in rough order:
Ask your designer to price at least two options early, such as a compact two-storey form and a storey-and-a-half form, before you commit to detailed drawings. Put the result into the self-build cost calculator and the stage payment planner.
Your insurance depends on what is being built and what sits on site. Two design choices matter:
For the cover that matches your stage, use What insurance do I need? and read self-build insurance. If the plot is already yours, insuring your site before you build covers what applies now.
Most are guidance, not law, and say so. But planners use them to judge whether a house fits the landscape, and a design that ignores one invites a refusal reason or a request for further information. The county development plan is the document with policy weight, so read both.
Yes, as a starting point. A stock plan is drawn for no particular site, so it usually needs to be adapted to your levels, orientation, access, wastewater system and the county's guidance, and to current Building Regulations. Planning permission and the certification of the design are still yours to arrange.
There is no single national limit. The council judges the size against the site, the landscape and the county's policy. Guides generally ask that the house be absorbed by the site rather than dominate it. Ask the planning office in a pre-planning meeting, and see the planning permission guide for how that works.
Often the opposite, per square metre. A bungalow needs more foundation and roof for the same floor area, so a compact two-storey form is often cheaper. It may not suit an exposed or elevated site. Ask your designer to price both for your plot.
Last reviewed 25 October 2026. Rules and figures change, so confirm anything important with the source before you rely on it.
This guide is general information about self-building in Ireland, not financial, legal or insurance advice. Get advice that fits your own situation before you make decisions.